i feel like things are really starting to look up. i mean sure, i've been on like 1.5 dates in the last six months, which is not ideal, but you know what? it's ok. because my life is pretty darn good. pretty good indeed. here are a few of the things that are making my life so terribly awesome lately.
1) my family. they've always been amazing. but i've never been so close to my parents, sisters or cousins. my experiences have brought me closer to them. i'm so grateful for that. they are the funnest, most loving, supporting people you'll ever meet. i often joke that if i ever want to get a guy to be interested in me, i just need to bring them around my family and they'll be hooked. it's totally true. my family=amazing. no doubt about it.
2) my friends. both old and new. i feel like truly good friends are hard to come by. but i've been lucky enough to be blessed with a lot of them. i think god knew how much i'd need them in my life (you know who you are) i have friends from high school that call to check on me, or drop me messages on facebook. friends that are busy with their own lives, but still take time for me. i've strengthened many friendships through this whole experience as well, and that is something i will forever be grateful for. i'm making new friends in my ward. i actually hang out with people now! it's amazing what a difference it makes when you feel like you're part of something, you know?
3) guitar. i've discovered a talent i didn't even know i had. i had accepted the fact that molly was indeed the most talented member of our family and assumed that i just didn't have what it takes. but you know what? i do. i mean, i'm no jimmy page, but i can hold my own. i'm picking it up pretty fast, and it's been really fun to discover this little nugget of talent. i absolutely love playing. and it feels good to be learning something new. it keeps my mind working. i love it.
4) golf. i've also been taking golf lessons recently. golf is a sport that i've always loved, been OK at , but never wanted to spend the time/money to get better. i work right next to a golf course, so i decided to take advantage of that. i've had 6 lessons, and will only have one more. but i've learned so much, and improved quite a bit. i love golf, because you don't have to have another person to enjoy it with. i mean, it's fun with other people, but it's not necessary to have other people. it's something i can do alone (which from the looks of things, is how i'm going to be for quite a while :) ) golf is fun and relaxing. and you get to be outside. how could it not be great?
5) my ward. there are some pretty dang cool people in my ward. our leaders are amazing. we're always doing fun things, and i've really enjoyed getting to know people better and actually becoming part of the ward. the church in general has been such a huge source of happiness for me as of late. i don't know what i'd do without it.
6) my job. i've said it many times, and will continue to say it. i am the luckiest girl in the world to be working where i work. the people are great, i love what we do as a company (if you're interested in what we do, click
here and watch the videos at the bottom of the screen). i feel like our leadership genuinely cares about their employees. we're like a 37 person family. i can't imagine going through what i've gone through over the past 6 months if i was working at my old company. i would probably be dead. no lie. of course, there are always little things about a job that can bug you, but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the happiest...i'm seriously at like a 9.7. and that's pretty darn good if you ask me.
here's the deal. i was talking to a co-worker the other day about a few things. and i said this. and i truly believe it, and try my best to live it every day "if i'm going to be a divorced, single, 25 year old, then i'm going to be the best darn divorced, single, 25 year old you've ever seen" (you can add that to your list of favorite quotes if you'd like). seriously though. it's true. this is my situation, whether i like it or not. so i'm going to make the best of it. and become my best self (man that sentence sounded super cheesy). and you know what? because i'm making the best of it....i'm starting to like my situation. no, i don't want to be single forever. but for now, i think i'm just fine. (with that being said, i would not be opposed to going on a date or something....i dunno. if you know of anyone, send them my way!) i hope whatever your situation is, that you're doing your best to make the best of it. because attitude really is everything (cheesy again) when it comes to these matters.
xoxo-meg